Lasting only a couple of years before we
ran out of steam... Putting parties together for old-fashioned spankers isn't
as easy as throwing a bash for your bowling buddies, you know, especially
when you're determined to do it right as we were praised for by partiers
over several solo F/M socials at Paddles in New York City before we went
bi-coastal & happily passed
the torch to Ms. Margaret Davis,
a dear NNL friend & NNL contributor who helped make all of our New York
events memorable for all & ever-lasting for the lucky men she took over her
capable lap & spanked to blushing bliss!
Well, we couldn't have
hoped for a better heroine to continue championing our cause, & Margaret has
proudly carried the torch to
new heights with regular one-night NYC socials, spanking weekends in The
Poconos of Pennsylvania, & an open to all spanker group she founded & aptly
Spanking Community of New York,
or SCONY for short.
foray Barb & I took into expanding & satisfying the She-spanks-He social scene in the mid-nineties was
relatively short, too.
However, as we like to think & believe you'll see
& agree in the smiling
faces & bottoms displayed here, it was sweet while it lasted & so successful that
attendees still fondly
remember them all these years later & occasionally ask if & when we'll be getting back onto
the spanking social stage.
Regrettably, the best answer we can give is,
"never say never." But, thankfully, others besides Margaret
have stepped in & up to form groups around the world that include regular or
occasional gatherings where kindred spanking spirits can enjoy letting their
hair (or more!) down in the company of people who know, love & share the
same naughty passion & secret.
Cyber spanking pals are
great & finding that special playmate or partner through an on-line ad is
fantastic. But there's something special about socializing with a
group of like-minded spanking devotees. So, if slipping
off to party or weekend with other spankers is not beyond your limits, Barb & I encourage you to consider spreading your spanking
avoid disappointment, we must add that you shouldn't go to any event
expecting to "play" or to meet that "special someone." Hoping is fine &
hardly fruitless since both have & do happen. But don't expect
anything more than a fun & exciting social interaction with nice,
normal, slightly naughtier than usual folks just like you & anything else you
may get will all be gravy.
Most if not all of the groups that have
sprouted up across the spanking world have websites & reputations if not
verifiable references or a history of sponsored social events. So, a little
research should do the trick &, hopefully, provide the magical experience
you want & deserve.
If so, please do let us know. Barb & I
would like to put on & pull off more memorable parties someday for all of
our friends & fans. But, until then, we'll be satisfied with passing on
any recommendations or comments you can supply for our spanking kin to enjoy the social scene as much as
Barb, I & the friends & fans did at these bi-coastal She-spanks-He soirees &
the ones that followed. But only in New York City.
Unfortunately for our
West Coast FemDom followers,
fate intervened before the next Frisco area bash they all demanded could be
& Barb chose to leave her spanking-new friends & beloved California behind
to move east & join up with me. I was & still am sorry for the
disappointment that followed. But
I'm comforted by the undeniable fact that Barb & all the guests at our only
West Coast She-spanks-He social will always have their warm memories of that
very magical one night by the bay. - Michael
cheeky pics from our
Blushing by the
Golden Gate bash!
hosted by our camera shy (but caught somewhere in the pic
above!) Barb & held at the Frisco BDSM club, Differences,
like-minded singles & couples mix & mingle at the beginning
of our West Coast soirée, each with their own hopes & dreams
of what might be in store for them on that spanking special
night... And was for all before it was through!
activist, socialite, lifestyler, friend,
columnist, SHE video star, & revered Mistress Mystie Gray literally hands out
pointers on how to spank a jean-covered bottom & then steps back to admire her newbie NNL's eagerness to
put her tips to the test to her dominant delight &, no doubt, to
the deliriously spank-happy satisfaction of the big
bad boy over her knees as well!!
one appropriately red-clad NNL spank-happily fills
her eyes with the sight of a cute pair of bare
boyish buns & her palm with the feel of his warming
flesh, another's palm itches until she can't resist.
Asking to join in, she draws smiles from her sister
spanker & ouches from her fortunate target with the
same obvious enthusiasm she already showed in the