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Another eye-opening piece of visual proof that
These ARE the good,
old-fashioned days!
for we perpetually persecuted She-spanks-He fanciers!
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The future IS indeed blushing bright!
Open spank-minded singles are popping up everywhere these days. But, for fanciers of firm young females & purely pants-down She-spanks-He sensationalism...

Ex-Treme Dating
WAS a FemDom
Delight!

Editing, pop-up overlays & the saucy commentary provided by eminently spank-worthy hostess, Jillian Barbierie-Reynolds, enhanced every D/s reference the camera & microphones catch on Ex-Treme Dating!

Among the many dating & mating shows that have popped up in recent years on network & cable TV, EX-Treme Dating was a short-lived, (2002-2004), syndicated show whose name & twist came from dragging along two EX-boy/girlfriends of one of the singles & hooking them up with a TV monitor & microphones to allow them to watch what's going on on the date & whisper not-so-sweet nothings in the ear of the woman/man they're supposedly out to save from making the same mistake they did.

Granted, as with any so-called "reality" show, just how much of what transpired on any date was producer orchestrated is hard to say.  They have mikes, too.  But, be it spontaneous or staged, EX-treme dating most definitely did do an awesome job of finding or fixing it so that more single young women & men were willing to engage in She-spanks-He play for the TV world to see than any other dating show we checked out.

We should spank-happily note that EX-treme Dating wasn't the only such show to feature spanking references or play.  But the number of them in the limited amount of episodes we saw before the show disappeared & the consistent, She-spanks-He theme they favored made it stand out above Blind Date or any of the many MTV/VH1 dating shows we sat through.

As such, we offer EX-treme Dating & these two thrilling examples as our prime example of just  how much times & attitudes about our forbidden fetish have changed since the sexist, spanking-prohibitionist days of The Dating Game.

The first features Angela, a professional stuntwoman who didn't need her blind date's exes, Alissa & Kristen, or anyone else to plant ideas in her marvelous mind when Greg, a spa manager, got a little too helpful during a stop at beer hobbyists store & lifted her short but sassy self up onto his shoulders so she could better see over the top of the brew master's tall pot.

Naturally, this put Greg's head in touchably close proximity to Angela's most intimate anatomical areas as the shows producers are quick to catch & capitalize on with a risqué overlay.  But Angela doesn't need any help in that department!  As soon as she is returned to earth, she turns toward Greg, bats her pretty eyes, & stuns him, the guys in the control room, Greg's exes & us She-spanks-He fans with this thrilling announcement:
"I think you need a SPANKING!"

Greg's shock is clear to see...
Did his sexy blind date just threaten to spank his ass?
Why, yes, she did, pal, & as the producers are quick to trumpet again with another overlay, Greg's disbelief quickly turns to glee as Angela catches & correctly gages his interested reaction & shows everyone that she really knows how to set the submissive mood by making her bad blind date pick his own poison from 3 excitingly enlightened punishment implements. This gal HAS to have done this before!

"Hmmm... What'll it be?"
Angela muses as she enjoys the moment & the hook she can she hanging out of Greg's mouth.  She's got her blind date in the palm of her pretty hand & knows it as she selects some prime spanking implements (a wooden spoon, a metal spatula & a plank-sized paddle for stirring) from the many beer making tools on the counter & queries her clearly intrigued target about which he'd prefer to feel whacking his muscled butt...
"Traditional, Martha Stewart, Momma's boy?
Steel metal, kick some serious ass kind of guy?
Rough & rugged plank sort of guy?"

"Hit him with the
HARDEST thing!"

 "Keep it going! KEEP IT GOING!!"

All grabs/photos/quotes on this page courtesy
of/copyright EX-treme Dating

Greg decides he's a rough & rugged sort of guy & Angela happily tries to give him the paddling he deserves with a plank-sized stirrer, although as she complains, "There isn't enough room to REALLY let him have it!"

Still, she does her best & gives Greg's waggling rump several whacks, which, interestingly enough, seem to excite the observing exes as much as the CP-minded couple who, in separate interviews after their beer store blushing, pick the paddling play as their favorite part of the date so far.

In their interview, Alissa & Kristen don't disagree. In fact, they were absolutely giddy with delight during Angela's Dominant demonstration & seemingly envious enough after to want to get their hands on their ex again, especially Alissa, the blond, who gushes...

"That SPANKING was a new
thing! I NEVER saw THAT side
of Greg before!"

Unfortunately for the exes, Angela isn't ready to toss her new boy toy back to them at the end of the date. Oh, no! Leaving everyone with the feeling that she wants another chance to warm his bad boy bottom... And properly this time!!... she opts for a more private, paid for by the show second date with him... And, perhaps, more? We wouldn't be surprised. This is one wise, wonderful woman who knows what she wants & how to get it by bringing out the naughty boy inside most men!! AND she is NOT the only one...

Another spanking-hot Ex-Treme Date